This is another post about relationships.
I'm talking about them in general, NOT referring to
lovey dovey bf/gf.
Yes relationships are everything in life, one can
become a geek, have infinite tech or other skills
and still be a total social incompetant.
Until recently, yours truly didnt put enough weight
or importance on relationships. I'm definitely
late as far as learning to understand ppl and such
but I'm progressing quite rapidly now, I feel it.
What matters is what I call "prime timing." This
concept means spending focused & concentrated time
with any particular person that you're with and ALSO
means you're focusing on people that matter to you
and that care about you, not just some extraneous
superficial friends.
Relationships are..Investments, yes of time, energy,
and sometimes money. Is yours an asset or liability?
That's really what it comes down to. Does it enhance
your life or detract from it, its really that simple,
no need to make it more complex/etc. If it is an asset
to your life then pour yourself into it. If it's a
liability then cut it as cleanly and non messily as
possible. There's no point trying to "pretend" to be
friends with someone that turns out to be a totally
different (and nasty (recent experience)) person.
I have personal goals such as getting relationships even
with my own two sisters back to functional, I want the
easygoing relationship that they depend on me. It's taken
time for them to mature, and one of them ahem needs more
time haha. I love my sisters but as is, the relationsihp
isn't how it should be, needs some surgery.
I was frustrated recently by multiple people in my life,
one *ahem* korean exchange student girl who I thought was
cool, and was interested in me as a person, and turned out
to be totally flip-side nasty after she got my phone, that
I loaned her for free...not...cool...
Another friend was somoeone I know in another country, dont
wanna put names/info because these days nothing is private,
and I know this quite well, being an avid google user myself.
Anyways it comes down to the person being all flipside weird
immaturish as well. I absolutely don't tolerate animal/immature
behavior unless I've known the person for a long long time and
it rarely happens, but otherwise there's basically no excuses
regardless.
its 6:00AM now, I've stayed up all night thinking and stuff...
So brain dead but leaving for school in 2 hours haha.. I can sleep
later...tty next time
